Hello Readers,
How many people do you know possess a ‘feuding mentality’? They will argue with you until they are blue in the face and they are always right, even when they are wrong, they are always right!! Raging, shouting, name calling and throwing things is all a big bluff because the person who is making all the noise feels threatened. They throw away all mature reasoning skills and huff and puff, rant and rave like an out of control 2 year old. Its impressive, is very scary and it gets people to walk around on eggshells whilst others just let them win every time and walk away from the situation. Sometimes another person’s anger has nothing to do with you. The angry person will target the nearest person to make themselves feel better regarding a situation that has irritated them and one they have probably not handled very well. It’s very natural to get upset when angry people confront you, regardless of whether their anger is justified or not. Do your best to respond calmly and intelligently and most of all, manage your emotions. Never ever yell and scream back, because that is like putting fuel on the fire and fanning the flames. Angry people find it very difficult to cope with anyone who communicates quietly and gently because they are not playing the game. An angry person wants a reaction, so don’t fall into the trap of giving them one.
Are any of these people happy with their lives? No, of course they are not. How can anyone who thrives and exists on a hugely negative vibration be happy? In the end, these people find themselves left almost completely alone because they have succeeded in pushing their nearest and dearest away from them because of their dreadful behaviour and choice of vocabulary.
Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything is poured onto. Behind every angry argument is someone’s ignorance and expressing their anger is a form of public littering, it’s a momentary madness so unless they learn to control their passions, their anger will control them.
A broken bone can heal, but the wound a world opens can fester forever.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
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