Hello Readers,
During the course of our life, there are people we will grow apart from whom we have formed significant relationships with for all kinds of reasons. A lot of people find letting go difficult and constantly torture themselves with images in their mind about how things might have been, should have been, ought to have been and never were. Their conversations regularly revisit the past as they go to great lengths in an attempt to describe a previous situation in an attempt to justify their decision in letting go of a particular scenario. Sometimes the hardest part is not even letting go, but rather learning how to start over again.
Sometimes, relationships go wrong, people quarrel, a rift is formed, no one wants to make the first move to resolve the problem so resentment sets in and the rot spreads. It’s hard to know who you really are when you are hanging onto a bunch of baggage from the past. Why do you cling onto pain? There is nothing you can do about the events and wrongs of yesterday. Why hold onto the very thing which keeps you from hope and love? It doesn’t make sense. If you really want to forget something or someone, never hate it or that person because everything that you hate is engraved upon your heart. If you want to let go and heal, you cannot hate. You can love them, forgive them and want the best for them, but still move on without them. Letting go means to come to the realisation that some people are part of our history, but not part of our destiny.
Never be afraid of change because holding onto something that is good for you now may be the reason why you do not have anything better. Holding on is believing that there is a past, letting go is realising that there is a future.
Take all the time you need to heal emotionally. Moving on doesn’t take a few hours, it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free from your broken self. You really don’t have to burn any bridges to let go, you don’t have to destroy anything. You can just decide to cross over and go in a brand new direction.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
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