Hello Readers,
When life is exhausting and we are faced with stuff that doesn’t always go our way, it’s so easy to start blaming external circumstances, Life is never easy at the best of times because we are continually faced with unexpected challenges and happenings that are often beyond our control. Relationships end, bitter divorces take place, businesses collapse, jobs are lost, health problems arise and people let us down. Many times we ask ourselves if we have what it takes to succeed? People are very prone to selling themselves short and doing themselves a great disservice by comparing themselves to other people and this rests in harming our well-being, lowering our self-esteem and eroding our self-confidence and so they begin to build a wall around themselves that encloses them in and prevents them from moving forwards.
We are all more than aware that life is full of surprises, but this does not stop us fearing the unknown and worrying about taking those first difficult steps into alien territory, but neither will we ever know if the next stage along our journey is going to be any better if we refuse to be brave and take the plunge by exploring new avenues. The worst thing you can ever do is underestimate your strength of character and your abilities to achieve your goals and survive challenges and obstacles if you do not give yourself any credit because you have more power than you realise. People often find themselves stuck down a deep hole they have managed to dig out themselves using self-doubt and a terrible fear of failure as a spade, even though at the time they could not see what their attitude and negative outlook was creating.
All you need is a plan, the road map and the courage to press on to reach your destination. Always remember, it takes nothing to join the crowd, but it takes everything to stand alone. So, it’s either ‘one day’ or ‘day one’, you decide when you are going to start living the life you have always wanted to live. If you have no faith in yourself, then quite frankly, you have nothing, so follow your soul because it knows the way.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx