HELLO READERS,
The end of a relationship often brings about many tears and frustrations about the promises once made and now broken. There will always be bittersweet memories filled with ecstasy and regret as we miss the special connection we had with that person. The pain of a broken heart cuts deeply, but may you find the strength to heal and move forwards in the wake of the aftermath. Difficult, but possible. With each new day of no contact, you stand a better chance of healing, but this will take time. Constant reminders never allow the wounds to properly heal as reminiscing can come at a high price.
It’s not about losing them, it’s about you lose yourself whilst you were with them. Blinded by lust, love and infatuation, it’s so easy to be drawn into their web of lies, deceit and manipulation. They aim to control, divide and rule, systematically separating you from friends and family until you are completely isolated and dependent upon them for everything. You went along with their fantasies, weird ideas and behaviour because you are afraid of upsetting them, worse still, losing them, and then later finding yourself alone. It’s about not knowing who you are anymore after they have gone because they have managed to almost bleed you dry together with your bank balance and self-worth. When there is no more drama to coil nor throats to burn with exchanges of dialogue, the silence can be deafening because previously chaos was the norm. What will you do now that you have all this time to think and be with yourself? You will be ok, because you have to be. We all occasionally fall and break, but it’s essential to your survival to also pick yourself and start over again because that’s what we do. Treat any time alone in splendid isolation as a gift to yourself, return to your home, to heal and rediscover peace of mind and serenity once more. Your soul needs to rest knowing that you have done your best. For the one who has cast you aside, it’s their loss and your gain because you have been given another chance to recreate your life, only this time, different and better than before. They will never learn anything whilst repeating the same old cycle over and over again.
Learn to navigate your passage to the stars where your Angels are watching over you. Allow them to counsel you and let you sleep because tomorrow is another day. Hopefully one day you will accept that they were not the one because they never were. You just wanted them to be. Perhaps you may forgive them for not being the Sun in your private universe. Most importantly, forgive yourself forgiving them too much credence when it was undeserved. They didn’t care enough, you cared too much. Your path is built for you alone. You will find your way once you turn on the lights within your soul. Never stop wishing for happiness nor dreaming of love.
Let whoever think whatever.
‘Tears of blood fall from my broken heart.
I never thought we would be apart.
When you held me, you said ‘forever’
Now that you’re gone, I know you meant “never.”
Saying you love me with that look in your eye,
And that was a………’
Love and light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
