Hello Readers,
Most people will judge you within the first second of a meeting and their opinion is never likely to change, but more importantly, what really counts, is how much your value yourself? We cannot think of being acceptable to others until we have first proven acceptable to ourselves. You can be the most beautiful, intelligent, gifted person in the world that everyone admirers ,but if you yourself are not aware of your worth, then the chances are that you will go through life attracting people towards you who will not value you either.
Life is tough enough and we all experience the odd self-confidence wobble every now and again, but it’s also important that you work hard on pulling yourself around so that you operate on a positive frequency. Every second that you spend doubting yourself, every moment that you use to criticise and pull yourself down, is a complete waste of your time and not only that, it’s none productive and totally negative. As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster because you are putting the key to your happiness in their pocket. You will never gain anyone’s approval by begging for it or making attempts to change yourself into the sort of person that you think they want you to be. If someone is not prepared to accept you on your terms for the person you are, then it’s time to walk away and start over again. Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth and when you stand confident knowing your own worth, respect always follows. Until you value and appreciate yourself you won’t value your time either, and until you value your time and realise how precious it is, you won’t do anything positive and constructive with it.
Above all else, value yourself because the only people who appreciate a doormat are people with dirty shoes.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
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